Quantae res vitae placent, tanto beatior eris.
These words, although not in Latin, were said to me by my father when I was 8 years old. He was taking a nap, and NASCAR was on TV. I asked him several times to change the channel because the cars were just going around and around in circles. It was boring, and besides, I wanted him to wake up and watch TV with me. He said to me half asleep, “Emmy, darling, the more things in life you like, the happier you will be.” He didn’t mean to make a philosophical statement, but I thought about it for the rest of my life.
I do believe that this is the secret to success in life, in business and in relationships. If you can find something to like about a person, product, service, work, or job, you will be more engaged in it. When people are engaged, they perform better and are happier. When they are happier, they attract others to them, and they in turn become more successful. People who want to believe are attracted to believers, people who want to be happy are attracted to happy people.
Great artists and teachers show us how to find the beauty that is in things which we would probably otherwise overlook. Actively looking for beauty and meaning, or just actively looking for things to like, is my personal secret to happiness.
I have been a Librarian at Texas Southern University for six years, where I get to wear many hats, have access to many wonderful scholarly databases, and get to interact with many inspiring students and faculty. I teach Information Literacy courses and teach World Literature in the English Department.
I live in Houston with my husband, two boys, two dogs and a cat. If you want to know more about me, you can always email me at elibrarian [at] hotmail [dot] com.